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When long-distance makes every argument feel catastrophic

Every time we have a fight over video call I cannot touch him or be touched and it makes every conflict feel like it might end everything.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The inability to repair through physical presence transforms normal relationship friction into existential threats.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-distance love?”

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