Periagoge
Scenario

When gratitude for refuge conflicts with grief for loss

Everyone assumes I should be grateful to be here and I am, but gratitude doesn't cancel out the fact that everything familiar was taken from me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The social expectation of immigrant gratitude invalidates legitimate mourning for what was sacrificed in survival.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost homeland — diaspora mourning?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.