He never asks how my day was and when I bring it up he says I am being needy but I just want to feel like he cares about my life.
More people experience this than they realize.
Basic curiosity about a partner's inner world has been pathologized as neediness.
“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.