He showers me with attention when I try to have boundaries but when I give in he becomes distant again until I threaten to leave.
More people experience this than they realize.
The cycle trains you to see your boundaries as obstacles to love rather than expressions of self-respect.
“Where Are You with Love bombing and manipulation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.