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What to do when you make a painful mistake with someone who is grieving

I accidentally said 'how is your husband' to my friend whose husband died six months ago and she looked stricken, and now I don't know how to fix it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of causing additional pain through careless words can create more distance than the original mistake warranted.

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