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When avoidance patterns emerge from old grief

I am forty-three and just realized that every major life decision I have made has been unconsciously shaped by wanting to avoid the kind of suffering my mother went through before she died.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unprocessed loss can become an invisible architect of entire life trajectories.

Ideas that help explain it
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