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Scenario

When your affair partner's spouse gets seriously ill

I am having an affair with a married person and their spouse just got diagnosed with cancer and I do not know how to handle the guilt of continuing or the pain of stopping.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Illness has transformed your hidden relationship into something that feels actively cruel, yet stopping feels like abandoning someone you love during their crisis.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Affairs, Betrayal, and Trust Broken?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.