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Why conflict creates attraction in your relationship

I am more attracted to my partner when we fight than when we are getting along and I do not know what this says about me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Some hearts mistake intensity for intimacy, confusing the fire of friction with the warmth of love.

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.