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When Your Partner's Addiction Escalates Before Marriage

I am planning my wedding but my fiancé's drinking has gotten worse since we got engaged and I do not know if I should postpone or hope marriage will motivate them to change.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Hope and denial intertwine when love wants to believe that commitment will heal what companionship has not.

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