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Scenario

When Your Partner's Addiction Escalates Before Marriage

I am planning my wedding but my fiancé's drinking has gotten worse since we got engaged and I do not know if I should postpone or hope marriage will motivate them to change.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hope and denial intertwine when love wants to believe that commitment will heal what companionship has not.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.