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When your relationship style is hurting your monogamous partner

I am polyamorous but my primary partner is not and they agreed to try it for me but I can see it is destroying them and I do not know if love means staying or leaving.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your authentic self-expression requires a relationship structure that causes ongoing pain to the person you love most.

Ideas that help explain it
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