I am realizing that I stay friends with someone primarily because I feel sorry for them, not because I actually enjoy their company, and that feels terrible to admit.
More people experience this than they realize.
Pity masquerading as loyalty creates a relationship built on condescension rather than respect, diminishing both people involved.
“Where Are You with Friendship & Platonic Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.