I am the only white person at my husband's family gatherings and I oscillate between trying too hard to fit in and feeling resentful that I have to.
More people experience this than they realize.
The exhaustion of code-switching reveals how belonging demands a performance that feels both necessary and false.
“Where Are You with Interracial and Cross-Cultural Partnerships?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.