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Scenario

When fear of commitment costs you the relationship you wanted

I broke up with my girlfriend because she wanted marriage and kids and I thought I didn't but now she's engaged to someone else and I realize I was just scared of wanting things I wasn't sure I deserved.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mechanisms we use to protect ourselves from disappointment can become the very cause of our deepest regrets.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ Love, Partnership, and Its Varieties?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.