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When fear of commitment costs you the relationship you wanted

I broke up with my girlfriend because she wanted marriage and kids and I thought I didn't but now she's engaged to someone else and I realize I was just scared of wanting things I wasn't sure I deserved.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mechanisms we use to protect ourselves from disappointment can become the very cause of our deepest regrets.

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