I came out as gay at 35 and while my husband and I are divorcing amicably I feel guilty for all the years I couldn't give him the love he deserved.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are learning that sometimes the most loving thing is to stop pretending, even when the truth dismantles everything you built together.
“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.