Periagoge
Scenario

When living authentically requires hurting people you care about

I came out as gay at 35 and while my husband and I are divorcing amicably I feel guilty for all the years I couldn't give him the love he deserved.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are learning that sometimes the most loving thing is to stop pretending, even when the truth dismantles everything you built together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.