I can only feel attracted to men who are mean to me and I know it's sick but kindness feels like pity or manipulation.
More people experience this than they realize.
The nervous system adapted to cruelty reads gentleness as either weakness or deception rather than genuine care.
“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.