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Why you lose confidence once someone chooses you

I can only feel attractive when men are pursuing me and the moment they commit I lose all sense of my own desirability.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

For some, worth exists only in the chase, dissolving the moment it is acknowledged.

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