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Scenario

Why some people only fall for the unavailable

I can only seem to fall in love with people who live in other countries or are otherwise completely unavailable, and I'm starting to think I'm afraid of actual intimacy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Distance becomes a requirement for love when closeness triggers fears of engulfment or exposure.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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