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Scenario

Why romantic gestures feel off after being hurt

I can see that my partner's grand romantic gestures always come right after they've done something that hurt me but I don't know if they're doing it consciously.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The timing of grand gestures often reveals their function as repair attempts rather than expressions of genuine feeling.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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