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Scenario

How to Stop Comparing New Partners to Your Ex

I cannot stop comparing everyone I date to my ex who broke my heart three years ago and no one measures up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The person who wounded you becomes the standard against which all future love is measured, creating a monument to your own suffering.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Heartbreak and Recovery?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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