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Scenario

How to stop comparing yourself to your partner's ex

I cannot stop comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex-wife who is successful and beautiful and the mother of his children, and I feel like I am always competing with a ghost.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

We torture ourselves with comparisons that reduce love to a contest where someone must lose.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Jealousy and Possessiveness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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