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When you're not sure if you're healing or just avoiding

I can't tell if I'm actually healing or just getting better at avoiding anything that reminds me of relationships.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

True healing and sophisticated avoidance can look similar from the inside, requiring discernment between protection and paralysis.

Ideas that help explain it
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