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When past infidelity becomes a recurring weapon in relationship conflicts

I cheated on my girlfriend three years ago and told her immediately but she still brings it up in every fight and I don't know if this wound will ever heal.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Forgiveness cannot be willed into existence, yet relationship survival depends on its eventual arrival.

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