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Scenario

When infidelity complicates the narrative of an abusive relationship

I cheated on my partner because they were emotionally abusive but now everyone acts like the abuse doesn't matter because I was unfaithful.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Moral complexity resists the simple categories that society uses to assign blame and sympathy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Infidelity — all perspectives?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.