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Scenario

When you obsessively monitor your partner's online activity despite having no reason to distrust them

I check my boyfriend's last seen on WhatsApp obsessively and feel physically sick when he takes more than an hour to reply, even though he has never given me a reason not to trust him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Anxious attachment manifests as hypervigilance that creates the very distance it fears.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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