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When celibacy reveals relationship addiction

I chose celibacy after realizing I'd never been single as an adult but now I don't know who I am outside of preparing for relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The constantly partnered person may discover in solitude that their entire identity was built around being chosen and needed by another.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The celibate life — chosen aloneness as a path?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.