I cleaned out my father's computer after he died and found emails he never sent, including one to me saying he was proud of me, and now I'm angry that he couldn't say these things while alive.
More people experience this than they realize.
Technology preserves not just what was shared but what was withheld, sometimes offering the gift of hidden affection or the wound of unexpressed love.
“Where Are You with Grief as spiritual practice?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.