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When you become the problem you tried to solve

I confronted my book club about their passive-aggressive behavior and completely misread the situation and now I'm the problem they're all bonding over excluding.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to heal dysfunction creates a new dysfunction with oneself as the identified patient.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Repair after conflict?”

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