Periagoge
Scenario

When you become the problem you tried to solve

I confronted my book club about their passive-aggressive behavior and completely misread the situation and now I'm the problem they're all bonding over excluding.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to heal dysfunction creates a new dysfunction with oneself as the identified patient.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Repair after conflict?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.