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Scenario

When Taking Your Spouse's Name Involves Losing Your Cultural Identity

I converted my name legally when we married but my Russian mother-in-law still corrects my pronunciation of my own new name and I do not know if I chose it or lost it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gesture intended to signal unity can become a daily reminder of what was sacrificed for belonging.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Marriage across cultures and traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.