Periagoge
Scenario

When you can't delete all the photos of your ex

I deleted all our photos together but kept one blurry one of his hands making coffee because somehow that felt less dangerous to remember.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Visual memory requires curation of what's safe to keep, often preserving fragments that feel less threatening than the whole.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost relationships — ambiguous loss of divorce?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.