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Scenario

How to handle secret Ubuntu obligations in marriage

I discovered my husband has been supporting his ex-wife financially without telling me, and he says it is his Ubuntu duty but I feel betrayed and excluded.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hidden loyalties are undermining marital trust while masquerading as cultural virtue.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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