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How to handle secret Ubuntu obligations in marriage

I discovered my husband has been supporting his ex-wife financially without telling me, and he says it is his Ubuntu duty but I feel betrayed and excluded.

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Hidden loyalties are undermining marital trust while masquerading as cultural virtue.

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