I do not know how to comfort my girlfriend when she is sad because nothing I say seems to help and sometimes I think she wants to stay upset.
More people experience this than they realize.
The impulse to fix prevents the presence required for true comfort.
“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.