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When partners normalize hurtful behavior as personality traits

I feel crazy for being upset that he flirts with other women because he says it's just his personality.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Character is not destiny when it causes consistent harm to those we claim to love.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional abuse in relationships?”

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