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Why Feeling Happy During Others' Suffering Creates Guilt

I feel guilty for being happy when my friend is going through a terrible divorce and I find myself downplaying good things in my life when I talk to her.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Joy becomes contaminated by proximity to others' pain, creating false responsibility for emotional equity.

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