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Scenario

When Cultural Expectations Force You to Choose Sides

I feel like I have to choose between being a good daughter to my traditional Filipino parents or being true to my relationship with my white girlfriend.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love divides the self when different loyalties demand different versions of who we are meant to be.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Interracial and Cross-Cultural Partnerships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.