Periagoge
Scenario

When we fall in love with potential rather than reality

I feel like I love the potential of who my partner could become more than who they actually are right now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loving someone's possibility rather than their actuality creates a relationship with a ghost that may never materialize.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in love — the neuroscience and the phenomenology?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.