I feel like I should visit my father's grave but I hated him when he was alive and it feels hypocritical to pretend death changed anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief rituals assume love that may never have existed and cannot be manufactured by death.
“Where Are You with Grief and relief — complex feelings after difficult deaths?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.