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Scenario

When Love Feels Like Surveillance

I feel physically sick when my partner does not respond to my texts within an hour and I have started checking their location constantly on Find My Friends.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hypervigilance in relationships stems from confusing control with safety and intensity with intimacy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love Addiction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.