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Scenario

Why forgiveness can feel like betrayal of yourself

I forgave my father for his alcoholism and abuse before he died, but now I am angry at myself for forgiving him because it feels like I betrayed my younger self who needed protection.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The path between genuine forgiveness and spiritual bypassing is often only clear in retrospect.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Agape — unconditional love across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.