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Why You Test People After Forgiving Them

I forgave my friend for betraying my confidence, but now I find myself testing her loyalty in small ways and I don't know why.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're unconsciously trying to rebuild trust through control rather than through time and consistency.

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