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Scenario

Why You Test People After Forgiving Them

I forgave my friend for betraying my confidence, but now I find myself testing her loyalty in small ways and I don't know why.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're unconsciously trying to rebuild trust through control rather than through time and consistency.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.