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When You Discover Betrayal After Your Partner Dies

I found my deceased husband's love letters to another woman while cleaning out his desk and I do not know how to grieve someone who betrayed me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Learning of infidelity after death complicates mourning by making the lost relationship feel simultaneously more precious and more false.

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