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Why you might be seeking attention outside your relationship

I found myself flirting with a coworker yesterday and I liked how it felt to be seen as attractive again and now I cannot stop thinking about what I am missing at home.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The hunger for recognition and desire can reveal how depleted the primary bond has become.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.