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Scenario

What to do when you discover your partner's romantic past

I found old love letters from my partner's ex while helping them move and now I cannot stop comparing myself to how they used to write about love.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The evidence of previous devotion can make current love feel diminished by comparison rather than special in its own right.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Conflict and Repair in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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