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What to do when you discover your partner's romantic past

I found old love letters from my partner's ex while helping them move and now I cannot stop comparing myself to how they used to write about love.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The evidence of previous devotion can make current love feel diminished by comparison rather than special in its own right.

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