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When your toxic ex rewrites history and blames you

I found out he's telling people I was the toxic one and part of me wonders if he's right even though I know what he did to me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Gaslighting creates lasting doubt about one's own version of events, making external validation feel more real than internal knowing.

Ideas that help explain it
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