Periagoge
Scenario

How to process grief when you discover painful truths after someone dies

I found out my dad had another family in another state after he died, and now I do not know how to grieve someone who was apparently living a double life.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Learning devastating information about the dead forces us to simultaneously grieve who we thought they were and reckon with who they actually were.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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