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Scenario

Why It Hurts When Your Ex Gets Help After You Break Up

I found out my ex is in therapy working on the issues that destroyed our relationship and I am angry they could not do that work while we were together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Their post-relationship growth feels like evidence that you were not worth changing for, making their improvement a fresh injury.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Heartbreak and Recovery?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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