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Why It Hurts When Your Ex Gets Help After You Break Up

I found out my ex is in therapy working on the issues that destroyed our relationship and I am angry they could not do that work while we were together.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Their post-relationship growth feels like evidence that you were not worth changing for, making their improvement a fresh injury.

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.