I found out my husband has a separate savings account with fifteen thousand dollars that he never told me about, and when I asked him about it he said it was for emergencies and got defensive.
More people experience this than they realize.
Secret money has become secret intent, making the marriage feel like a partnership with an invisible third party.
“Where Are You with Love and money — financial stress in relationships?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.