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When you discover your partner's private conversations cross emotional boundaries

I found texts on my partner's phone that weren't cheating but felt like betraying our intimacy and I don't know if I'm overreacting or if this is actually a boundary violation.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The territory between fidelity and betrayal is often unmapped, leaving us to navigate by instinct what should be governed by agreement.

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