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When your biggest sacrifice earns you nothing

I gave my kidney to my sister five years ago and she still treats me terribly, and I wonder if unconditional love means I am supposed to accept being treated badly forever.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The expectation that love should create gratitude can become its own form of attachment to outcomes.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Agape — unconditional love across traditions?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.