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When someone dies before we can fully atone

I had an affair during my wife's cancer treatment and she forgave me before she died but I cannot forgive myself and I do not know how to live with this.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Death can freeze us in guilt that was meant to be transformed through time, relationship, and mutual healing.

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