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Should You Tell Your Spouse About an Affair That's Already Over

I had an affair six months ago and ended it but I cannot decide if I should tell my husband because I do not know if I am protecting him or protecting myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The conscience wrestles between the cruelty of truth and the cruelty of deception, knowing both wound differently.

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