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Scenario

Should You Tell Your Spouse About an Affair That's Already Over

I had an affair six months ago and ended it but I cannot decide if I should tell my husband because I do not know if I am protecting him or protecting myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The conscience wrestles between the cruelty of truth and the cruelty of deception, knowing both wound differently.

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Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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